101 Ways to Qualify Her
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Outline
- Theoretical premise: investment is the key to attraction, and qualification is the stage where you get her to "prove herself to you"
- Why qualify: high-value people don't show off — they make others prove their own value to them
- Four categories of qualification tools: qualifying statements, and small, medium, and large qualification loops
- The bulk of the book is a list of 101 sample qualifying questions and statements for readers to adapt into their own versions
Core idea
Rather than displaying value to make an impression on her, it's better to get her to invest and prove herself through qualifying questions — a sense of investment is the real source of attraction.
Review
The underlying psychological observation about "getting the other person invested" has some basis (consistency with prior commitment), but turning it into a canned list of 101 lines that teaches people to deliberately perform as a "high-value qualifier" is disingenuous and easy to see through.
